In life there are only two kinds of people who will make you feel pain deliberately, not accidently, the people who hate you and want to hurt and damage you, and the people who love you and want to benefit you
And then I understood, that the doctor will always be unable to help me, unless I cooperate and accept the pain as my friend, embrace it
Therefore today, I took a decision, that I will no more cause pain, and this decision is final, despite the fact that by I by abandoning and stopping giving any advice, this will lead to the negative damaging pain they are in right now to be increased
But since I cannot help those unwilling to end their pain, I now permanently cut every tie to my past, and this decision is final
Best Friend in history that mankind always tried to avoid, remembered as horrible
Best Friend in history which mankind always tried to avoid, remembered as horrible
Throughout history mankind has spent billions of money to try to avoid it or at elast ease it up, never realizing it’s true value and benefit
Rocky Balboa in the historical movie “Rockie 5” asks his apprentice, “who is your best friend in town” and when his student tries to mention the names, he tells him he is wrong, because his best friend in life is fear
I do not disagree, but today I want to introduce you to another extremely good friend, which people always try to avoid, it seems and feels terrible, and throughout history billions were spent in order to either end it or at lease ease it up
It is called pain, which comes with a huge set and abundance of benefits
Pain is your defense mechanism, when something is wrong in your physical body, pain informs you, it warns you
When your hand is near a fire, pain informs you before your eyes or nose; it is the first sense that warns you immediately to pull your hand before it burns out
When a part of your body is severely injured and feels no pain, that means it is numb and that is extremely dangerous, it means that part might be paralyzed, and now the injured person will do anything to feel back pain again
Pain is life
Pain is not only physical, it also may me emotional/mental, when you do something wrong, a friend, a true friend will tell you the truth, as ugly as it may sound and hurt your ego, but maybe your friend sees something more clearly than you
In life there are only two kinds of people who will make you feel pain deliberately, not accidently, the people who hate you and want to hurt and damage you, and the people who love you and want to benefit you
And you will naturally say how can I differentiate and distinguish between the good beneficial pain caused by a friend and a hurtful pain
But before that, I want to tell you about another element,
Pleasure
And what is wrong with pleasure, it makes you feel good, true, but not all pleasure is harmless, alcohol might give you pleasure, drugs also will make you feel wonderful, sexual relations with the wrong type of people, but the joy is temporary, and the consequences are, the deeper and stronger the pleasant affect, the consequences are more severe and hurtful
But physical tools are not the only one that will seem pleasant temporarily but will hurt and damage eventually if you are not careful
Nice hypocrite words of praise make you feel self-satisfied, your ego might enjoy it, but that praise will come with an indirect recommendation and motivation to carry on a wrong path will often lead to catastrophes
So how can someone distinguish between a friendly beneficial brotherly pain and a hostile harmful damaging pain?
That is easy, you must start from reviewing the history of the one causing you pain has he been sincere to you, is he a sincere person in general, has he always been honest to you, has he done beneficial gestures towards you for a significant period of time
The many advises that he has given to you, did a lot of them turn out to be true, the ones that you did not follow, do you today regret not following some of them, the outcomes of the plans you drew, and he warned you of their failure, did some of them turn out correct
If someone gave you physical pain, did it benefit you?
And if on the other hand
People praised you with nice words, and encouraged you to a path that lead to your failure, defeat and even catastrophes, they did cause you pleasure like alcohol and drugs, but only a temporary one, but their final outcome was very negative
Therefore, Time for you to embrace the beneficial pain, let go of your stubbornness, ego and laziness, accept and embrace pain
I am going to a physical therapist, he started to give me extreme horrible unbearable pain, I was shouting like a madman, I was worried that he will ask me not to come anymore, because I am becoming a serious obstacle to other members, then I understood, that the only way I will improve is by accepting the pain and cooperate, endure the pain, and only after that, my left foot muscle who is only 60% long, has finally started to improve
And then I understood, that the doctor will always be unable to help me, unless I cooperate and accept the pain as my friend, embrace it
Therefore today, I took a decision, that I will no more cause pain, and this decision is final, despite the fact that by I by abandoning and stopping giving any advice, this will lead to the negative damaging pain they are in right now to be increased
But since I cannot help those unwilling to end their pain, I now permanently cut every tie to my past, and this decision is final
Peter Manoukian
"Pain is your friend, your ally! It will tell you when you are seriously injured! It will keep you awake and angry and remind you to finish the job and get the hell home!"
